Managers should nudge, not push, new experiences

Help employees develop new skills with kindness and grace Sometimes you just need a gentle nudge to do something that you wouldn’t do otherwise. And afterwards, you’re grateful for that push. Grace was evidence of this lesson the other day, when she was led down a frightening path, but found it safe and happy after…

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How to handle well-adjusted (and not-so-well-adjusted) employees

A friend and Graceful Leadership blog reader emailed me after the last post and said that she was glad to hear that the recent chiropractic visit helped Grace and that she hoped Grace continued to be “well-adjusted.” Of course, I loved that she cared about Grace. And at the same time, it struck my funny bone…

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Managers who dig in lose sight of the big picture

Good managers know when to focus. But first they must be aware of their surroundings. loan people bad credit When Grace is fixated on something, it’s nearly impossible to get her off of it. She gets so wound up, either excited or nervous, and then she loses all sense of the big picture. You can…

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Two easy steps that will lead to mutual respect

Have you ever had a manager or a co-worker show you a lack of respect? I bet you have. When two or more people come together come together to brainstorm ways to work through difficult relationships, respect is one of the first words that surfaces. “Everyone should respect one another,” is echoed again and again.…

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Managers: Listen Up!

Everyone knows (or at least they say they know) how important it is to be a good listener. But are you? Would you, as a manager, be more effective if you were a better listener? You bet you would. So read on to see how.  It’s easy to describe what good listening looks like: active…

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Are you protecting something even though no one else wants it?

Grace loves her marrow bones. It’s one of her all-time favorite treats. So when Oliver and Dodger even throw a glance her way, she goes into protection mode. Those cats could care less about a beef bone. They haven’t once licked it or attempted to play with it (despite the fact that every single item…

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Want to eliminate workplace dysfunction? Get ticked off!

It’s tick season. Hardly a day goes by that we don’t find at least one tick on Grace. Finding and removing these rather troublesome parasites gives us a lesson for how to better handle difficult colleagues and eliminate workplace dysfunction.   Ticks are more than annoying, they carry real health dangers to dogs and humans. Part…

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Finding real solutions: are you doing the right thing?

Here in New Hampshire, the weather forecast is calling for four straight days of sunshine. I couldn’t be happier after all the consistent off-and-on (more on) cloudiness we’ve had, culminating in a thunder and lightning storm last night that frightened the wits out of Grace. Sunshine just makes me happy. It seems to bring out…

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Kindness is an effective leadership skill

This past weekend, my husband and I walked about 10 paces behind Grace as we were ending up our Sunday hike. We had gone out with a small group of people in search of mushrooms, now that spring is here and morels might be out there to be found. We watched her as she kept…

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